MY BROTHER AS JESUS CHRIST BY K.B.GOPALAKRISHNAN

MY BROTHER AS JESUS CHIRST
by Chennai based K.B.Gopalakrishnan

28th JULY, 2009 12:00PM

Every one bears cross. They suffer for the collective sin. Jesus Christ’s life is an excellent example. Of course I used to laugh in my younger days. I was a staunch believer in the law of karma. I had limited understanding on instant karma collective karma etc. now my head bows down before man of compassion.

Let me share with you a heart rendering story. My maid servant got her daughter danalakshmi married to one of her relatives. That boy was in love with someone. Somehow maid servant rajamani’s daughter liked him a lot. He set impossible dowry like bike, chain etc. somehow my maid servant managed to get the impossible deadline and got her married. Mothers love produced magic. For her daughter’s love she manifested everything.
The marriage turned out to be a tragedy. The boy was alcoholic. He used to torture the girl danalakshmi every day and physically beat her. She also conceived. Grand daughter was born. My maid servant and her husband use to travel on and off to make a compromise. Slowly the son in law got into gambling. He was making lot of money before marriage as mason. This boy got his two sister married. All that had gone up in the wind. He was reincarnation of abuse and mental torture. The girl developed herpes or some kind of venereal disease because this man went and slept with some whore.
Every day became horrible. slowly and surely the girl was pushed in to extreme. She could not come back to her parents place. Secondly her husband was extremely torturous. One lady explained to me that it is not only physical abuse, mental pain but social humiliation, endless pain for which no skill can make her survive in this world. She took the extreme and took her life. She committed suicide. it shocked everyone.
How is the story related to my parents and my brother tragedy?

My parents used to fight endlessly beating each other and talking all bad words. They were financially were successfully but they use to hurt all relatives with insensitive speech. Relatives who helped them were abused. Then suddenly one day after the 11th std my brother was diagnosed as schizophrenia. It sent such a shock waves into our family and lineage. We were at loss to explain what happened and why it happened. My entire journey was to find answer to this truth and solution to my brother. My father was shattered as a chaste Brahmin why this happened in his family. He was adherent devotee of kanchi kamakotti mutt., my mother who was worshipped as goddess by great puttrapathi sai baba in her younger days for a kumari pooja did not believe in god. She went in to ramakrishna orders.

Then I came to conclusion that because I eat the food I used to fight. I stopped eating food cooked by my mother in the fear of fighting. Strange was my brother psychiatrist problem that he and my father used to have lot of problems. My teacher gave the great lanaka avatar sutra. When he was disturbed by spirits I used to chant this prayer. Somehow he used to calm down. Brother and father used to fight a lot. Then my father passed away. During his last days my father asked me one day “may be you are right. when parents fight a lot the children get affected. Maybe that is the reason for my son psychiatric problem”. He passed away after this understanding.
Then my brother problem became half. We never admitted him in 4 years time in any hospital. There was no major swing in psychiatric problems. In fact it had subsided a lot. He used to give on and off some mental torture to my mother who used to call me and problems will subside within few minutes.
In fact my mother passed away. Almost he is normal. Even during grahana days there has been no problem. What a change. Of course one of my student jayashree told me “very few people can do remedial measure like you. It was persistent for number of years. You never let it up. The care for your brother must have overwhelmed him. May be you were the milarepa of your family". The great Tibetan saints who did black magic and realized the law of karma and become Tibetan immortal saint. Maybe she was exaggerating; true for number of years my only aim was to heal my brother.
Frankly had my brother did not become mentally ill nothing would have stopped my family excess. We were abusive and obnoxious to extreme point which includes me. His illness was blessing by god, today my whole life is rooted in spiritual realm due to his problem. All my answers what I got in any field was trying to solve his problems. May be that girl danalakshmi died to teach a lesson of love and change towards her husband. My brother was like Christ suffering for our excess to show where we are wrong. He was alert send by god. Of course many times I have felt that god was kind and compassionate. Even in his imperfection he is perfect, the death of danalakshmi gave me the answer to my life or lineage’s biggest tragedy- my brother mental illness.

That someone suffer like Jesus Christ to make someone realize the truth of love. He is ok today because in the family we do not fight. We have stopped abusing people. We act kind, humble and forgiving. What a price to learn the simple truth of life.

If you are reading this piece, remember do not fight with your husband or wife. It affects everyone. If children do not study or do not listen to you or some kind of illness is there remember it is warning from heaven. I have helped number of families due to this insight. Families were fighting and their children do not study well, children develop illness which is undiagnosed. Stop this psychic war. You are running your lineage and permanently sowing the seeds for a future problem. The greatest healing is love. When love is there god is there. Hatred, ego and non-forgivess make life more painful.

This is for man. Just because a woman does not earn money or keep quite to shouting, she can be done anything. I have seen many men’s career going down swing because wife does not feel good about the man. Stop this abuse and you will see career picking up. My brother went and stayed in a relative’s house. This relative never made much money. I used to wonder why, because he was very humble outside. But the answer is that he abuses wife and children.

I can give example of many people’s life. When a man does not do well in work I ask the first question “are u abusing your wife and children?”

Women’s love is equivalent to parahamasa blessing. We do not need to show the power with wife and children we need to show them love. Just like we are imperfect our blood relatives are also imperfect. A dakini told me very beautifully ‘we want support men if they tell us their fear, doubt and pain. We will find answers for them. Many of them do not even want to listen how can we help them’.

Any way this tragedy gave me the answer which I was desperately seeking.

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