EXCESSIVE MENTAL CRITISICISM BY CHENNAI BASED K.B.GOPALAKRISHNAN

EXCESSIVE MENTAL CRITICISM
by Chennai based K.B.Gopalakrishnan

12th JULY, 2009 4:41 PM

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One of the biggest advantages of the modern era is the mental development of the mass consciousness. Secondly we have various ways of communication like internet, TV, radio, paper etc which shows one level of development.

What are the problems of excessive mental criticism- lack of sleep, restlessness, unable to enjoy what one has, a sense of depression, unable to follow one’s own words and mental confusion etc.

There should be balance in criticism. Many people lose their balance which makes the relationship complicated, cumbersome and non resolvable in many cases.

Differences in what was done and what could be done- media bashing is based on the principle. However much a politician or a bureaucrat performs it is never enough. There is no sense of gratefulness, happiness and satisfaction. The same gets translated in the personal relationship and in parental relationship. I think many parents do the best what could be done. Many times the so called psychologist ask people to find out what could be done instead of what was done.

It is human to make mistakes. Everyone has a weak point in their ability and limitation. If this is understood then the criticism can be tone down to a large extent. For example some people expect all my predictions in mundane astrology to come true which is totally impossible. I am bound to make mistakes, have failures which are part of being human. Your parents, teachers, lovers etc will have same problem. They are human which makes life dependant on god. Only god is Omni perfect and always perfect.

In time line some people have advantage. I was trained in public speaking and in writing by working with newspapers. If I expect my friends and clients to have such level of communication it is unfair. I had early start and my circumstances and situations were very favorable. In the same way in many relationship parents did not have circumstances and situations like what we have right now. Access to information, exposure to analytical skill, education etc. can make a huge difference in performance. Therefore expecting same level of intelligence from people who did not have exposure, back ground and training will create only problems.

Aspects and levels- when you look from Manmohan Singh’s level then reality and influence will be very different. Suppose if you were to look from my level then financial reality would be different. If you look finance from the spending and receiving aspect we would have different view. Human minds cannot do mode shift, level shift, aspects shift and dimensional shift like a great meditator. This is what padma sambhava says make human mind pliable using meditation. Such inflexible narrow band of reality creates very powerful conflict.

It takes time to do something than to talk. Many arm chair generals of astrology have never made real predictions. Ask them to do mundane astrology predictions and they will not open their mouth. Same case where doer are never talkers. Talkers are never doers. My teacher used to say “what you know about movies? Never say movie is bad. Just say I was not entertained. My perception was not interesting enough. That is all”. There are people who have made huge effort to make a movie. They do not make bad movie but movies which did not fulfill expectation. If one wants to learn then you can do from any movie.

It takes real effort to understand another person even though they are close to you. Understanding requires reflection, clarity of intellect, contemplation, forgiveness and compassion. It takes even months some time to understand a person.

Lowering expectation would be better idea than expecting perfection from people. Look at your parents, spouse and children. They are dependent on you. Why make big fuss of their small mistakes which is unintentional. Shouting, howling and blaming will snuff the love out of people life.

God is love said the great Christ. When gods were to expect us to be like his greatness even genius cannot surpass him. He is ultimate intelligence. If he is embodiment of love then sweeten the words the world will be a better place to live.

Truth and love co exist in presence of great teacher. To expect from a common man is little difficult. Truth has many facets so is love. It require years of meditation to combine both these aspect of life.

Lord god may the human beings communication be blessed with divine love, divine light and divine mercy

May the words used by human being be sweeter with love in time.

May I also be forgiven for misusing words and hurt people with criticism .

May I dedicate this merit to my lineage and to spiritual lineage of this world to be filled with words of concern love and understanding love.

May every one word brings in peace

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