WHY I DO NOT NEED TO RENOUNCE WOMEN IN SPIRITUAL LIFE BY K.B.GOPALAKRISHNAN

WHY I DO NOT NEED TO RENOUNCE WOMEN IN MY SPIRITUAL LIFE.

By Indian Astrologer K.B.Gopalakrishnan
17 th August, 2009, 1:30 pm

In my spiritual journey the greatest surprise is the renouncement of women. Basically a woman is considered the cause of evil, lust producer, distracter of sadhana. This is what I have heard. I was totally shocked that it was women who have renounce men than vice versa.

The first shock of my life was women encourage you when you meditate. My wife for example whenever I wanted to help her in the kitchen she will say please go and meditate. This happens early in the morning. Secondly when I did sadhana women helped me a lot. They brought prasadam with lot of love. In fact if I want prasadam I can ask jayashree or my wife who will go out of the way to do it for me. When I wanted a walker for keeping me fit it was a student named anusha lakshmi who helped me in getting one. Never have I seen them distracting my sadhana. One of my student, rama gopalan edited my nadi astrology book. Though she is senior by age made sure that book got published. Therefore I have found that women help in sadhana. I always use to feel milarepa that great Tibetan yogi was helped by astral dakinis. I have seen and felt that women many times go out of the way to help in my sadhana.

"Men are not very good in bed "said a dakini. I was quite shocked. She continued “in 9 out of 10 cases, women can live without sex. It is just men cannot control their sexual urges. We feel sorry that they cannot go any were else. In fact we pretend to enjoy when most of the time it is 2-5 minutes affair. If at all women enjoy it is hug very rarely a kiss that is all." many times women do not even ejaculate forget even orgasm.

I checked with many women who said it was true. Many so called spiritual aspirants portray themselves as sage viswamitra tempted by the celestial dancer menaka. I have heard stories of men who cannot control their sexual urges even after the age of 60. They become hornier and want sex many a times which gets women annoyed. This was quite shocking. I have never seen a women going out of the way to disturb man who is doing sadhana. I have been without shirt, alone many times with many women. None made advances. In fact many times women said we feel very comfortable with you. In fact my wife many times has warned me during sadhana days to control my urges.

Many times it is pattern of abuse with men. They do not earn, and when they earn they treat women in most horrible verbal abuse. I have seen verbal abuse from very senior executives who are educated MBA’s. Women’s desire is the last priority in the house. No one will give any damn to their desires and feelings. It is just mommy will adjust a lot. I have never seen many women who are capable of verbal abuse to such a level. At the most they get angry. That is all and they shout with decency and respect. When men go to sadhus they complain of the women torture.

In many houses the guru access is for men and many women in India cannot meditate. Even if they meditate or talk about the guru they are ridiculed along with their guru. Some of the men go to the extent calling the lady of house is having affairs. Many women gulp down the advice on patience and kindness from the guru because she does not want to let down the husband in front of the others.

One lady told me very nicely “men do not renounce reasonability and they can take sanayas any time. In fact women are far more responsible". This shocked me but then it is true. Many women want their children to study best. When they switch of TV, men try to sabotage the effort by saying it is only for relaxation. Many men do not know school name or standard of the children or marks they get. In fact my mother used to put leave for my exams, whereas my father never came to school. Many times men do not even attend parents teacher meeting. One lady told me, my husband wants children to get prizes but make such a ruckus for dropping them in competition or even to classes.

Some of them started business which went for loss and huge debts or invested shares and went bankrupt or bought property beyond the means which put enormous pressure on the women and family which creates tension and never ending sacrifice. Many times women stick in the marriage due to children. otherwise it will be having a negative impact due to the divorcee parents. I did not want to leave my husband because there is stigma attached to society on divorce parents said a mother.

Many of their talents and abilities are too good for a man. I have met thanjavur ladies, tiruchy ladies who could match with wit intelligence any men in their life. In fact my wife can run the house without my help. Two generation of ladies my mother and grandmother brought up their children without help of men. Many of them camouflage their ability and talents because men’s ego cannot digest a reality. ,

Some of them have devotion to their guru surpass or prayers for the sadhana will surpass so called sadhus.
I met a woman whose name is mala mami who almost did 10 hours of sadhana for her son so that he will be free of cancer. He recovered by such a terrific sadhana of his mother.

So in fact I found that men need to renounce their ego or change life style to meditate than leaving women. Many women make more money, run the house and yet have career and devote some time to god and live the life of fullness. Whereas this is not the case with men.

I came to the conclusion may be the great Gautama Buddha renounced the kingdom because may be he did not have time to meditate. To say a man of caliber of Buddha leaving his wife is a question mark?

I warned a sadhu who was famous for 12 hours of meditation in thiru vanamalai. He has written two books. Nice soul. I warned of a women coming in to his life and it came true. He was even tempted to leave sadhana and wanted to get married. It did not happen due to some divine grace. I really doubt women would ask him to leave everything. She would have protested and found ways to escape. It was another women to whom I bow down with respect who taught me art of giving.
I can improve my meditation. I should more careful of my acidic tongue than any women. I do more damage to myself than any women. It is better I have Shakthi who will help me in my sadhana.

May I dedicate this merit for the birth of son in my lineage, my brother’s marriage, my sadhana to grow stronger and to the formation of spirtual lineages of my style of astrology.

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